Let’s get something out of the way.

You’re not a bro marketer.
You didn’t become a solopreneur to live inside Google Sheets.
You’re not chasing open rates for sport.

You care about people.
You care about integrity.
And the numbers?
Well… sometimes they make you feel like you’re failing.

But here’s the truth no one tells you in those “optimize your funnel” webinars:

The best email marketers aren’t obsessed with numbers.
They’re obsessed with what numbers mean.

Let me show you how to make your metrics feel less robotic — and more like a conversation.

Last year, I worked with a soulful online coach named Mya.
She sent me a Slack message that said:

“Eli… this email only got a 17% open rate. Did I just waste my time?”

We looked at the numbers together.

🧾 Here’s what we found:

·       Her list was just under 1,000 people

·       172 opened

·       46 clicked

·       8 replied with vulnerable, beautiful stories

·       3 booked discovery calls

Guess what she sold that week?

Two $3,200 coaching packages.
From what she thought was a bad email.

But here’s the thing...

Those numbers?
They weren’t numbers.

They were:

·       172 people who paused their scroll to hear from her

·       46 humans who trusted her enough to explore her offer

·       8 souls who felt seen

·       3 clients who said yes with their wallets

And one coach who finally realized:
Metrics mean more when you remember the humans behind them.

Lena (our brilliant solopreneur avatar) doesn’t want to obsess over numbers —
She wants clarity. Signals. Emotionally intelligent data.

Here’s how to read your email stats like a human-first strategist 👇

Stop using your open rate to measure your value.

Seriously.

An 18% open rate doesn’t mean your email flopped.
It means:

·       Your subject line didn’t earn curiosity — this time

·       The timing might’ve been off

·       Or maybe Gmail played hide and seek

Open rates = attention insights, not personal rejections.

💡 Reframe:
“Only 200 people opened” → “200 people were curious enough to stop what they were doing and read me.”

If you get even one thoughtful reply, pause and celebrate.

It means your words made someone feel seen enough to speak back.

That’s the kind of engagement algorithms can’t manufacture.

💡 Try this:
Create a “Reply Tracker” doc in Notion.
Paste in every kind, honest, vulnerable message you get.
When the numbers mess with your head, read that doc.

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Clicks are curiosity markers.
Even if no one buys, if people are clicking through to your sales page, they’re warming up.

What you can learn from clicks:

·       Where attention drops (use scroll heatmaps if available)

·       What words or offers spark action

·       What’s not aligned yet

💡 Play detective:
Which CTA got more clicks — the bold button or the text link?
What happens if you move your call to action above the fold?

You’re not just tracking behavior.
You’re learning how humans engage with your voice.

This one hurts, I know.
But unsubscribes are like a social media cleanse.

If someone leaves your list:

·       They weren’t aligned

·       They were never going to buy

·       Or they just needed space (and that’s okay)

💡 Reframe:
“I lost 6 subscribers” → “I made my list more resonant for the ones who are staying.”

You don’t need to track every metric under the sun.

You need to track the ones that build momentum, not self-doubt.

And remember:

·       📥 Open rates = Attention

·       📤 Clicks = Curiosity

·       💬 Replies = Connection

·       🛑 Unsubscribes = Clarity

When you humanize the numbers, you realize something wild:

You're not just “sending emails.”
You’re creating micro-moments of trust at scale.

1.     Pull up your last 3 emails.

2.     Ask these human-first questions:

o      “Who showed up?”

o      “Who leaned in?”

o      “Who spoke back?”

o      “What did I learn from this?”

3.     Celebrate one signal you’ve been ignoring.

4.     Use it to write your next email with more clarity, confidence, and care.

Remember this:

“The most powerful metric isn’t your open rate — it’s your willingness to keep sending emails that matter.”

📈 The data isn’t just data.
It’s people.
It’s proof.
It’s practice.

What’s one stat that used to make you feel bad —
…but now you’re seeing it through a new lens?

Drop a reply, or comment below.
Let’s reframe the numbers together 📬💬

Or hit forward and send this to a biz friend who’s deep in “data shame.”
Let them know:
They’re doing better than they think.

1.
Subject: 46 clicks, 8 replies, 2 sales — and a lesson I won’t forget
Preheader: This is what “low” numbers can really mean.

2.
Subject: What if your 19% open rate was actually a standing ovation?
Preheader: It is — when you zoom in the right way.

3.
Subject: Let’s talk about the numbers no one’s tracking
Preheader: Like how many people you made feel seen this week.

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