
🟡 Pre-Game Is the Strategy
Why Black Friday Emails Start Now — Even Without a Discount
Hey Lena,
Let me say this before the seasonal inbox stampede begins:
👉 The best Black Friday emails don’t start in November.
👉 They start now.
👉 Even if you don’t have an offer yet.
Wild, right? But here’s the deal:
The reason most creators feel crushed by their promos isn’t because their product is bad.
It’s because they started cold. ❄️
They ghosted their list for weeks (or months).
Then suddenly showed up shouting SALE SALE SALE.
And when no one replied, they whispered to themselves: “I guess email doesn’t work.”
But Lena… email always works.
Warm-up is the part most people skip.
And warm-up is everything.
🧠 Let's Get Strategic — The "Email Warm-Up Effect"
Imagine this:
You’re hosting a dinner party. You’ve made your signature lemon-thyme pasta. You lit candles. You curated a playlist. You even wiped down your vintage brass flatware (respect ✨).
But instead of inviting your guests in…
You burst into the room and yell:
“Dinner’s ready — BUY A SEAT NOW!”
No hello. No intro. No vibe.
That’s what cold email selling feels like.
It’s not bad food.
It’s just bad timing.
🕯️ Why Warming Up Your List Works (And Feels Better)
Here’s what happens when you take the time to pre-game your seasonal emails:
· 👀 Your subscribers start paying attention again
· 🧠 You re-train their brain to expect your voice
· 💖 You rebuild connection, so your offer doesn’t feel random
· 🤝 You position your product as a natural next step
· ✍️ You feel less like you’re “selling” and more like you’re continuing a story
In other words:
Your email becomes a relationship again.
Not a megaphone.
🛠️ What to Send BEFORE the Sale
You don’t need to pitch anything yet.
This week, you’re just warming the room.
Here are 5 pre-promo email ideas that make your list lean in 👇
📨 1. Behind-the-Scenes Vibe Check
Subject Line: “This almost didn’t happen…”
Let them peek into the kitchen.
Share what you’re working on, rebuilding, or rethinking for the season.
📌 Why it works:
Transparency builds trust. It makes the eventual offer feel like part of a shared journey — not a surprise attack.
💬 2. Seasonal Reflection
Subject Line: “What are you letting go of this season?”
Guide your reader through an aligned emotional space.
Talk about what this season means to you — rest, clarity, closure, growth.
Ask them: What do you want to finish before the year ends?
📌 Why it works:
Emotional reflection creates internal readiness — even before you pitch. It aligns their season with yours.
💡 3. Client Win or Story
Subject Line: “She thought no one would buy — then this happened”
Tell a short transformation story.
Make it human, not just stats. Let them see themselves in the journey.
📌 Why it works:
Stories activate empathy + aspiration — two key ingredients in any conversion recipe.
✍️ 4. The “Almost Sent” Email
Subject Line: “I almost deleted this…”
Share a draft, a scrapped promo, a caption that felt too vulnerable — and then explain why you’re sending it anyway.
📌 Why it works:
Honesty disarms skepticism. It shows them there’s a human behind the strategy.
🪞 5. Ask a Question
Subject Line: “Quick q: What are you launching this season?”
Keep it light. Make it real. Ask them to reply.
Not just to get clicks — to get conversation.
📌 Why it works:
Replies improve deliverability (yes), but more than that… they show you care. And that matters.
🔁 Repeat After Me, Lena:
✨ I don’t need 17 sales emails.
✨ I just need a warm, welcoming list.
✨ People buy from creators they trust.
✨ Trust is built before the cart opens.
✨ My voice doesn’t need hype. It needs honesty.
📆 Your Mini Pre-Game Plan
Take 30 minutes. Open your notes app or Notion.
Here’s your to-do list this week:
✅ Pick 3 warm-up emails to send over the next 10 days
✅ Choose stories > stats
✅ Don’t stress about being “strategic” — be sincere
✅ End each email with soft CTAs like:
· “This is what I’m building — more soon.”
· “Thanks for being here. I’ll keep you posted.”
· “Hit reply and tell me what’s on your mind this season.”
🧘♀️ True Confession from Eli:
I used to think “value first” emails had to be packed with formulas and teaching moments.
But the best warm-up emails I’ve ever sent?
Were just real. Quiet. Simple. Me.
One of them was just a photo of my notebook and the line:
“This is what I’m trying to say in my Black Friday email — but I don’t know if it’s clear yet.”
That email got 17 replies.
More than any “5 email tricks” tip sheet I’ve ever sent.
🎁 Bonus Resource:
Want a done-for-you pre-game prompt pack?
Just reply “WARM ME UP” and I’ll send you 5 copy-and-paste starters for your seasonal warm-ups.
No cringe. Just connection.
💡 Big Lesson:
Your promo starts before the pitch.
Every warm-up email is a breadcrumb toward trust.
🪄 Proverb of the Day:
📜 “Don’t rush the recipe. Let the list simmer.”
💬 Before You Go…
👉 Hit reply and tell me:
What’s one small thing you could send this week to warm your list up?
🌟 Save this email in your “Black Friday” folder.
📣 Forward it to a friend who’s still ghosting their list (no judgment).
📬 Email Subject Line Options (Daniel Throssell–style)
1. You're already late… unless you send this now
Pre-header: The best seasonal promos start before you ever pitch.
2. Don’t pitch cold. Do this first.
Pre-header: Your Black Friday strategy begins this week — here’s why.
3. Before you sell anything this season, send this.
Pre-header: 5 warm-up emails that actually build trust.
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