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Welcome to another issue of From Inbox to Income — where we believe selling doesn’t have to feel loud, pushy, or emotionally exhausting. 💌
Know someone who breaks into a cold sweat every time they add a CTA? Forward this to them.

In today’s issue:

·       Why traditional CTAs create resistance

·       What a soft CTA actually is (and isn’t)

·       How to sell consistently without pressure, guilt, or burnout

Let’s talk about the moment most solopreneurs dread.

You’ve written a good piece.
You’ve shared something honest.
You’ve built momentum.

And then you reach the end and think:

Okay… now I have to sell.

Suddenly the tone shifts.
Your shoulders tense.
The writing gets stiff.

You add urgency you don’t fully believe in.
You soften your language to the point of apology.
Or you avoid the CTA altogether and hit send without direction.

None of those feel good.

And none of them are necessary.

Most calls-to-action are taught like commands:

·       “Buy now”

·       “Don’t miss out”

·       “Spots are filling fast”

They assume the reader needs to be pushed.

But pressure creates friction — especially in relationship-based businesses.

When CTAs feel sweaty, it’s usually because:

·       The ask comes too early

·       The tone shifts abruptly

·       The reader hasn’t been oriented yet

In other words: the CTA is doing too much work.

Here it is:

A CTA isn’t meant to convince.
It’s meant to clarify.

A good CTA doesn’t force action.
It names the next available step for someone who’s already leaning in.

That’s the heart of the soft CTA strategy.

A soft CTA is:

·       Calm

·       Optional

·       Contextual

It sounds like an invitation, not a demand.

Examples:

·       “If this feels relevant, here’s where you can explore it.”

·       “This might help if you’re in this season.”

·       “You can take a look when it feels right.”

Notice what’s missing:

·       Urgency theater

·       Pressure language

·       Emotional manipulation

Soft CTAs respect the reader’s timing — and their intelligence.

From a psychological standpoint, soft CTAs do three powerful things:

When readers don’t feel rushed, they stay open.

No bracing.
No skepticism.
No internal “ugh.”

Trust is fragile.

One aggressive CTA can undo paragraphs of thoughtful connection.

Soft CTAs keep the relational tone intact.

The strongest conversions happen when people feel like they chose — not like they were cornered.

Soft CTAs give people agency.

And agency builds confidence in the purchase.

Let’s make this practical.

A CTA should never be the most emotionally intense part of the message.

Before the ask, make sure you’ve:

·       Named a real tension

·       Shared insight or perspective

·       Helped the reader feel seen

When the message does the heavy lifting, the CTA can stay light.

One of the biggest mistakes is a tone switch at the end.

If your writing has been:

·       Thoughtful

·       Calm

·       Conversational

Your CTA should match that energy.

No sudden hype.
No corporate language.

Consistency builds credibility.

Permission lowers pressure.

Try phrases like:

·       “If you want…”

·       “This is for you if…”

·       “When you’re ready…”

These phrases don’t weaken the ask.

They strengthen trust.

Multiple CTAs create confusion.

Choose one clear direction:

·       Read

·       Reply

·       Explore

·       Buy

Let everything else go.

Clarity beats options.

Soft doesn’t mean absent.

Avoiding CTAs entirely can feel just as confusing as being pushy.

Your reader wants to know:

“How can you help me with this?”

A soft CTA answers that question — without pressure.

Let’s clear this up.

Soft CTAs are not:

·       Passive

·       Apologetic

·       Hidden

They’re clear, confident, and calm.

You’re still making an offer.
You’re just doing it with respect.

I once watched a solopreneur double conversions by changing one sentence.

Original CTA:

“Spots are limited — grab yours now.”

Rewritten soft CTA:

“If this feels like the right next step, you can learn more here.”

Same offer.
Same audience.

Completely different energy.

The second didn’t rush people — and more people said yes.

Here it is:

You are not responsible for making people act.
You are responsible for making the path visible.

Once the path is visible, the decision belongs to them.

That’s not weak selling.

That’s ethical selling.

Before your next send, rewrite your CTA using this prompt:

“If this resonates, the next step is…”

Stop there.

No urgency.
No justification.
No over-explaining.

Let the message speak.

“The best CTAs don’t push people forward.
They make the next step feel obvious.”

You don’t need louder calls-to-action.

You need smoother transitions.

When your CTA feels like a natural continuation of the conversation, selling stops feeling like selling — and starts feeling like service.

Sell without the sweat.
Invite instead of push.
Trust that the right people don’t need convincing.

That’s the soft CTA strategy.

And it works.

·       Soft CTAs reduce resistance and preserve trust

·       Selling works best when the message does the heavy lifting

Calm, optional invitations outperform pressure

Anthony Maynard

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